We have been married for 8 years and Gary has been a quadriplegic for 6 of those 8 years. I miss my husband, but thank God everyday that he is still with me. I ask Him for strength and mercy for some days still wishing things were different. But I am sure He understands and I hope you do to. I miss his hugs, I miss walking beside him and holding his hand, I miss HIM. I love you Gary Kula and would not want to be married to anyone else. I would not trade where we are in our lives together and with God. You are my Superman and I truly do "love you more today than yesterday".